Lagu Love Yourself nya Justin Bieber berhasil mengingatkan
gue bahwa that Justin Bieber boy, he has that that-voice. Apaan sih cinn. Iya
Cuma mau bilang kalo si Justin enak banget bawain lagu itu ketimbang pas
nyanyiin lagu swag-swag-swag-swag.
Syahdu banget emang lagunya, apalagi kalo ditambah-tambah
gosip bahwa lagu itu sindiran buat Selena Gomez. Ugh!
Lagu ini menurut gue emansipasi pria banget. Ibaratnya kalo
emansipasi wanita, wanita minta lebih diizinkan untuk masuk dalam pemerintahan
karena mereka juga gak kalah pinter dari pria, nah di lagu ini seolah-olah pria
minta diizinkan untuk patah hati juga karena wanita gak kalah asshole nya dari
pria pada saat mutusin hubungan percintaan. Jadi jangan selalu jadikan wanita
korban dong, jangan selalu tuduh pria sebagai seorang yang bersalah.
Perempuan biasanya kalo udah ngerasa jadi korban pasti
curhat, terus akhir-akhirnya nyalahin laki-lakinya, terus akhir-akhirnya juga
denial kalo selama ini si laki-laki beginilah-begitulah makanya hubungan mereka
gak berhasil. Laki-laki juga bisa kok jadi korban yang disakiti perempuan.
Salah satunya si Justin ini. Dia patah hati terus curhat, persis kayak
perempuan.
Kira-kira apa aja isi curhatan Justin? Silakan disimak pada
penggalan lirik di lagunya:
“For all the times that you rain on my parade”
“All the clubs you get in using my name”
“My mama don’t like you, and she likes everyone”
“I never like to admit that I was wrong”
‘I’ve been so caught up in my job, didn’t see what’s going
on”
“When you told me that you hated my friend, the only problem
was with you and not them”
“Everytime you told me my opinion was wrong”
“Tried to make me forget where I came from”
“For all the times that you made me feel small”
Sebenernya kita bisa memetik nilai-nilai luhur kehidupan
dari curhatan si Justin ini. If you want to make your relationship works, don’t
be that girl Justin talk about.
1. Don’t rain in his parade. Means you have to support him.
Don’t spoil his plans, Don’t prevent him from enjoying an event. Don’t prevent
him from enjoying HIS LIFE.
2. Don’t tell him that he is wrong because no men like to
admit that he is wrong. And when everthing goes wrong, he will say that it was
not his fault, he did not see that coming. Why?? Because he’s been so caught up
with his job.
3. Don’t belittle him. Because no men like to see his woman
‘bigger’ than him
4. Don’t get to the club using his name. It’s a tip, by the
way. Never ever ever use everthing he owns for your benefit. Because once your
relationsip ruins, he will tell people that you are a gold digger.
5. Don’t mess with his family especially his mother!!
Yeah, that’s pretty much sum up everything. Like everytime my friend talk to me when she has problem with her boyfriend, the problem is always around that five points. Contohnya semalem temen gue curhat dia lagi berantem hebat sama tunangannya gara-gara temen gue ngambek pas tunangannya lembur tiap minggu, terus tunangannya makin murka gara-gara temen gue bilang kalo si tunangannya gak pernah memprioritaskan temen gue. See, nomer 1 dan 2. Atau temen gue yg tetiba dijauhin sama pacarnya gara-gara katanya ibunya pacarnya gak bgtu sreg sm temen gue itu.
Ya saran gue sih kalo mereka masih mau mempertahankan
hubungan mereka, they have to deal with that, or else.........
Karena lima poin itu emang cowok banget. Semua cowok
kayaknya gitu. Si Justin juga gitu kan.
