Problem is
a gap between what actually happen and what we want (or what it should be)
Not really
difficult to find those gaps. Even my nine-years-old sister has found that in a
thai tea tragedy yesterday. She wanted a glass of expensive thai tea but my
mother didn’t let that happen. And then she got angry.
Why should
she get angry? Mother didn’t let her buy that thai tea because of the price,
not because mother hates her. I think she failed to understand. But what can we
(adults) expect from a nine-years-old girl to understand? Nothing. Because she’s
just a kid. She knows nothing.
Otherwise,
adults know many things, adults can collect information, and adults know how to
communicate with people. Use that. Don’t let yourself got angry just because
you failed to understand just like kids. Don’t got angry because you don’t know
what to do just like babies.
Adults
please, just because you can
angry, doesn’t mean you
should. Try to ask why to yourself first, then to other people. Listen their
reasons. Stop whining if you think those are reasonable.
Come on,
adults, you’re better than that!
If you find
yourself angry because of misunderstanding
or just
because you don’t want to
listen
or because
you just want to make other people feel bad
go f***
yourself, selfish!
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